Things have been busy. New house, counseling appointment to deal with paranoid anxiety and depression, and grad school. Here’s a quote from a cool article on chivalry and what it is, how it should be used, and what it most definitely not. The article is really good too, so you should click the link at the bottom and read it.
“Chivalry boils down to three things: mercy, charity, and humility. Mercy means being conscious of your advantages, and treating other humans gently. Charity means giving without expecting anything in return. Humility means accepting your mistakes, and recognizing that those who don’t have your advantages aren’t your inferiors.”
Sincerely, A Grad Student 